Hello readers! Speaking of reading, I am an avid book lover - usually finishing a book a week sometimes! In particular, I tend to gravitate towards health/wellness/growth books (can you tell I love what I do? I'm always reading about Wellness - body, mind & spirit!)
That being said, I wanted to blog about perhaps one of my favourite books on emotional eating and ending the struggle when it comes to dieting, our weight and everything else that surrounds food. The book is called "Women, Food & God" by Geneen Roth. You may have heard of her or this book because she was recently on Oprah. I love Geneen's work - she has been doing this for over three decades and her message is consistent and true. I would say this is a MUST read for anyone who has ever struggled with weight, compulsive/emotional eating and overall searching for something and looking at food as the solution.
But the thing is, its not about food - it never is. But, as Geneen points out, using your relationship with food as a doorway to what's really eating you is the path to freedom. Its such a great read - I think everyone should read it! I use this approach very often with my patients - we all know what is healthy vs. unhealthy food for the most part, that we should exercise, drink water etc etc.. but the real question is what our beliefs are about life, living, the world and how that is acted out in our relationship to food. Truly an eye-opener.
For me, this book has brought me much insight into how I can approach patients who 'just want to lose x
pounds' to hopefully become more loving, understanding and nurturing with themselves. Then the weight just falls off - it always does.
So here are a few quotes from the book which I hope will spark something within you:
"Our relationship to food is an exact microcosm of our relationship to life itself. I believe we are walking, talking expressions of our deepest convictions; everything we believe about love, fear, transformation and God is revealed in how, when and what we eat. When we inhale the Reese's peanut butter cups when we are not hungry, we are acting out an entire world of hope or hopelessness, of faith or doubt, of love or fear. If we are interested in finding out what we actually believe -- not what we think, not what we say, but what our souls are convinced is the bottom-line truth about life and afterlife -- we need to go further than the food on our plates."
"Trying hard and then harder to lose that last twenty, fifty, eighty pounds - and never being able to do it...they are like Sisyphus pushing the boulder up the mountain and almost getting there but never actually arriving....You always have something to do. As long as you're striving and pushing and trying hard to do something... you know who you are: someone with a weight problem who is working hard to be thin. You don't have to feel lost or hopeless because you always have a goal and that goal can never be reached."
If this sounds like you, read this book. And start the journey towards breaking free.
Wellness Always,
Dr. Shamira
www.artofwellness.ca


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