Today I saw a great video exerpt from a TED conference where Tony Robbins was speaking. 29 years of doing what he does - a true master. I am in awe of what a magnetic and inspiring speaker he is. In fact, he is here this weekend at the Metro Toronto Convention Centre - what a great event it will be!
But in this video exerpt, he identified six human needs - four of which are personality driven and two of which are 'needs of the spirit'. So I wanted to share that with you today in addition to providing you the video link.
According to Mr. Robbins, the six human needs are as follows:
1. Certainty - we need to feel secure, that all is well - the roof won't cave in, we have food to eat etc.
2. Uncertainty - the perfect compliment to certainty - we NEED uncertainty - ie. surprises or 'problems' when they are surpises we don't want! But we need them otherwise if we were certain about absolutely everything in life we'd be BORED!
3. Significance - we need to feel unique/special/important. Unfortunately that is why violence is around and has been around for so long because it is a fast and effective way to instantly feel significant.
4. Connection/Love - this is an interesting one. He says most people go for connection and forgo love often simply because they are afraid of getting hurt. I think perhaps its more that we don't know what love is and misinterpret what connection is as well.
5. Growth - a need of the spirit. Without growth, there is death. We (body/mind/spirit) need to grow, expand, learn, change, evolve - that is part of the art of fulfillment.
6. Contribute - such a HUGE need in my opinion - we need to feel like we're making a difference, giving back, sharing. As he says, the secret to life is giving - its we not me. So true.
I really connected to these six human needs as I see them not only in my patients but in myself of course. I hope you'll enjoy the clip I'm linking here and really think about your needs and what is/is not being fulfilled in your life. But always remember to be grateful for what you have - and then work on fulfilling the other areas that may be not as rich or deep.
And if you're lucky enough, you may be able to see him live this weekend!
Enjoy:
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Posted by: salima | August 28, 2009 at 11:34 AM