I am entrenched these days in the world of day care options for babies. My daughter Myrah will turn one in a couple of months, and as much as I would like to postpone it, it will soon be time for me to get back to work. For the last couple of months I have been researching day care options, visiting them and consulting other parents.
It is one big world with many options. And there is no right universal answer, making it pretty difficult to make a fully satisfied choice.
First, and most expensive, are the day care centres. Very institutionalized and structured, these places have about 10 infants (12-18 months) under 3 caregivers. The children follow a sort-of-set schedule during the day which includes outdoor time, stories, rhymes and playtime. If you are the kind of parent who likes discipline and lots of activities for your child, this one is for you. Children get to befriend other kids, play together and share. The downside, I am told, is lots of germs picked up from lots of other kids!
Pros: structured, lots of interaction, activity-based, social skills
Cons: lesser flexibility, more rules, germs
Then there are the home-based day care centres, which are affiliated to a government approved agency. These are typically women who run an establishment from their basements or homes. One pays the agency for access to these home centres and a monthly commission. The agency, in turn, promises minimum standards of care under their supervision. Or that’s what they say. In my research I visited homes with barely any toys and facilities, to well-established and thriving home centres, all under the wings of the same agency. I would take the promise of “minimum standards” with a pinch of salt.
Pros: flexibility, home environment, possibility of more personalized attention (I say possibility because I am not convinced it is a given in all home care settings)
Cons: risk of leaving your child with one caregiver (this could go either way), more children under one caregiver, loosely organized day, not much activities
The third option is other home based centres which are independent, with no approval or supervision from any government body. These are hit and miss options. Some of them are really good, some are threadbare. It really depends on the lady running the show. I found good ones, well set up with lots of facillities, and others run from cramped one-bedroom condo apartments. These are, of course, cheaper.
Pros: very flexible, cost, very informal atmosphere
Cons: difficult to find as there is no centralized database for them, lesser accountability, often less organized and fewer facility than others.
Ultimately, you have to decide what works for you. What seems a perfect fit for me may be your last choice. Here are the key points I based my decision on:
1. Is the place clean and well-kept?
2. Are there lots of toys, books and other facilities for kids?
3. Are the caregivers welcoming and do they seem nurturing to the children?
4. Is there enough activity to keep the kids stimulated and active during the day?
5. How convenient is the location (close to work/home)?
6. How approachable and friendly are the caregivers with the parents?
7. Is the cost comparable?
8. What are the reviews/opinions of other parents?
9. Any other perks that seem attractive and unusual that demonstrates the centre goes the extra mile
and finally,
10. What is your gut reaction to the place? Your heart does have a big say in whose care you entrust your little baby.
I have made my decision, by no means an easy one. Time will tell if Myrah proves me right.


























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